Sukuyo Ankai compatibility: 安壊 / 安壞 without fatalism
Sukuyo Ankai pairs the roles 安 and 壞. The label 壞 is not proof of abuse, obsession, attraction, or a doomed relationship.
Overview
Name the agreement that was broken and the boundary that is needed. Intensity never creates an exception to someone’s refusal.
At a glance
- Roles
- 安 ↔ 壞
- Example
- 昴 → 参: 安
- Reverse
- 参 → 昴: 壞
Keep both directions
Determine the roles from the ordered mansion sequence. Reversing the pair swaps 安 and 壞.
Do not assign the roles from a story about who pursued whom.
Attraction is not a calculation field
A reading may invite discussion of friction or intensity, but the offset does not measure attraction or predict a breakup.
Strong feelings and a traditional label are separate pieces of information.
A boundary example
An authored example: one partner repeatedly changes agreed plans and calls the disruption exciting. The other wants reliable notice.
Discuss the actual agreement and its impact instead of treating disruption as a required feature of Ankai.
Do not normalize harm
A mansion label never supplies consent or excuses intimidation, coercion or unwanted contact.
If someone says no, respect the refusal; the chart does not create an exception.
What a useful reading changes
It can prompt a specific conversation about pace, expectations and repair. Judge the response by what people do afterward.
It cannot establish that staying or separating is automatically the right choice for every pair in this family.
Use a safety-first countercheck
Write the chart label in one column and observable conduct—consent, intimidation, plan changes, repair and boundary responses—in another. Make decisions from the conduct column.
A calm Ankai relationship is not secretly harmful because of its name, and harmful conduct is not made acceptable because a reading calls it intense.
Sources and editorial basis
- 宿曜經 · T1299 卷下卷下「三必祕要法」三九法: 安 and 壞 positions, not evidence of modern abuse or inevitable separation.The three-nine passage supplies historical relative-position terminology. It is not evidence that a modern relationship outcome is determined by a mansion pair.
- OpenFate Sukuyo calculator and calculation conventionEditorial code check 2026-09-10, policy 1.0.0: ankai; policy.ts, constants.ts, engine.ts and traditional-cycles.ts. Product settings are not an independent historical authority; practical examples are OpenFate editorial applications.Product-specific input and output reference. Editorial checks also inspected policy 1.0.0 and the month-start constants on 2026-09-10; those implementation checks are not an independent traditional authority.