Sukuyo Yusui compatibility: 友衰 and unequal expectations
Sukuyo Yusui pairs the roles 友 and 衰. The label 衰 does not show that one person drains, exploits, or inevitably harms the other.
Overview
Different notice periods and availability can explain a mismatch. Test a practical agreement before attributing disappointment to a role name.
At a glance
- Roles
- 友 ↔ 衰
- Example
- 昴 → 觜: 衰
- Reverse
- 觜 → 昴: 友
Read the calculation first
Confirm both mansion names, then locate the forward and reverse labels. The family name groups them without making the roles identical.
Do not infer a role from who is older, wealthier or more emotionally expressive.
Avoid blame from a word
The historical vocabulary includes favorable and unfavorable terms. Applying an unfavorable word to a person is an interpretive leap.
A calculation is not evidence of selfishness, manipulation or inevitable loss.
A planning example
An authored example: one friend expects spontaneous invitations while another needs notice. Repeated disappointment can look like unequal care.
Agree on a realistic notice period and see whether the problem changes.
Check the actual imbalance
List concrete contributions, requests and constraints. A busy schedule and a disregard for commitments are different problems.
Do not use a mansion role to excuse repeated behavior or to invent a problem where both people are satisfied.
Review after an agreement
Try one agreed change and revisit its effect. A useful conversation produces information beyond the original label.
If the interpretation does not fit, leave it aside rather than searching for hidden evidence of decline.
Separate mismatch from neglect
Compare one missed expectation with what was actually requested, acknowledged and feasible. Then agree on a specific notice period or response rule and review the next occurrence.
Improvement after a clear agreement supports a coordination explanation; repeated disregard is evidence about behavior, not proof supplied by the Yusui role.
Sources and editorial basis
- 宿曜經 · T1299 卷下卷下「三必祕要法」三九法: 友 and 衰 positions; application examples are editorial.The three-nine passage supplies historical relative-position terminology. It is not evidence that a modern relationship outcome is determined by a mansion pair.
- OpenFate Sukuyo calculator and calculation conventionEditorial code check 2026-09-10, policy 1.0.0: yusui; policy.ts, constants.ts, engine.ts and traditional-cycles.ts. Product settings are not an independent historical authority; practical examples are OpenFate editorial applications.Product-specific input and output reference. Editorial checks also inspected policy 1.0.0 and the month-start constants on 2026-09-10; those implementation checks are not an independent traditional authority.